Guy friends while dating
Now, I kept my male friendships purely non-physical, but I clearly had no shame in letting them spend lots of money on me – certainly just as rotten a motive as a guy using a girl for sex. Intentional Dating Was it a crime to go to an event once a week with someone for nine months and simply sit together?But one day, my illusion of having all these guys around who were “just friends” shattered when one of my male buddies revealed he was head over heels in love with me and had been seeing a counselor for six months to reconcile his emotions with reality. Not by a long shot, but I knew on a deeper level that by spending time with him each week and approaching him with a big smile and a hug, I had encouraged him for far longer than a woman who claims to follow God should do.
As he explained in an interview with CNN’s Fredricka Whitfield, “All my friends are men. “We remain your friends in hopes that one day there will be a crack in the door, a chink in the armor,” he said.
Dear Eddie, I have a best friend of the opposite sex, we’ve known each other for years and I fell in love through our mutual experiences and care for each other.
However, this love was not reciprocated, but I was still kept as a confidant and best friend while my friend dated someone else.
Between your intensely careful attention to making this question untraceable, as well as your clear heartbreak, I’m just sad for you and sorry you’re hurting. Having said that (while dropping a Christian pseudo-curse word in the process), we need to have a conversation.
And as a start, we’re going to move away from your direct situation a bit and zoom out—way out—to some bigger questions that may make your particular path a little more clear. But don’t worry, I’m not getting into exchanging locker combinations and sharing Stüssy shirts.